Well hello! My name is Victoria Baxter and I'm the youngest of 5 children. Born and raised here in Charleston, SC, I'm a mom of 2 children. Enter in the fun teenage years. We believe in fun, games, and craziness in our household. It's the reason we have 2 dogs, 3 rabbits, a hamster, a guinea pig, and a turtle.
I'm the founder and Executive Director of a nonprofit organization. I have a single women's ministry and an online church. I make it my mission to reach people by any mean's necessary.
For years now, I’ve helped others break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. I am here to help my clients achieve a more positive outlook on life, and provide them with all the tools necessary to get them there. I've written 6 books and I am a certified Life, Singles/Dating, and Relationship Coach. I am also a certified Enlightened Relationship Workshop Facilitator.
I had no idea this is where I was going to be, professionally speaking. I have made horrible choices with relationships. Horrible! I was someone that was desperate for love, anxious to have my happily ever after. I believed in God, but I didn’t necessarily trust that He would give me my heart’s desire. I figured He needed “a little help” so I would take matters into my own hands. I would meet a man that checked things off my superficial list of desires and wonder, “could this be him? Is this my husband?” I was desperately waiting. Enter online dating, desperately dating, a lot of sex, being driven by emotions, neediness, etc. I was frustrated! Even after giving up sex, I still wound up getting my heart broken by a man that I thought I was going to marry. I was devastated. And crying out to God one day, He took me on a journey.
He showed me my issues and what I was doing wrong. The hardest thing to accept? I didn’t love myself. It’s not that I hated myself or was miserable. But there was definitely a lack of self-love. So I expected men to give me the one thing I didn’t have for myself. Love. It’s all I really wanted. He showed me what love is. That it’s an action and not a warm, fuzzy feeling. He showed me what marriage is truly all about because I was clueless. He allowed me to see all that I was doing wrong, and the number one thing was not seeking Him first. Another hard pill to swallow? Him revealing to me that I didn’t trust Him. Ouch. Then, He clearly told me, “now go and reach My daughters.” He sent me out to teach what I had learned to other single women that were in the same place as me. He assured me my husband was on the way but in the meantime, I had a job to do. So, here I am!
I’m a problem solver for single women that believe in God but have a hard time trusting Him and waiting on Him when it comes to love.
As a Christ Follower, I will use my knowledge, wisdom, and gifts to help you heal, find contentment, and prepare, all with Christ at the center. Via group coaching, individual coaching, workshops, and speaking events, I want you to see that He is doing a new thing in your life. But first, you must forget the former things.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.
Understand that working with me means being held accountable, being motivated, and receiving strategies.
I ensure that my clients receive instructive resolutions more than constructive criticism. Think of me as your professional BFF!
Let me help you learn and develop better ways to handle the issues that are standing in the way of your goals.